Hano hari inama esheshatu zizagufasha gutangiza ibiganiro byawe neza:

1. Ishyire mu mwanya wawe.Mbere yo gushyikirana nundi wese, menya icyowoweibikenewe - ibyo ukeneye cyane n'indangagaciro.Kumenya wenyine birashobora kugufasha gukomeza kwibanda kumahitamo akorera buri wese.Uko uzi byinshi ku nyungu zawe, niko ushobora kuzana amahitamo yo guhanga yujuje ibyo buri wese akeneye.
2. Teza imbere imbere "Ibyiza bisimburana kumasezerano yumvikanyweho" (cyangwa BATNA).Ntushobora buri gihe kugenzura ibikubaho, ariko urashobora guhitamo uko wabyitwaramo.Inzitizi zikomeye zo kubona ibyo dushaka mubuzima ntabwo arindi shyaka.Inzitizi nini ni twe ubwacu.Twabonye inzira zacu.Fata icyerekezo cya kure kigufasha gufata icyemezo utuje kandi neza.Ntukihute.Niba wumva amarangamutima mbere, mugihe na nyuma yikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose, fata akanya urebe ibintu kure.
3. Ongera ushushanye.Ababona isi nk '"abanzi cyane" bazafata abandi nkabanzi.Abizera ko isi ari inshuti birashoboka cyane kubandi bakomeye nkabafatanyabikorwa.Iyo uganiriye, urashobora guhitamo kubona gufungura kugirango ukemure ikibazo kubufatanye nundi muburanyi, cyangwa urashobora guhitamo kubona intambara yo gutsinda cyangwa gutsindwa.Hitamo gukora imikoranire yawe neza.Gushinja abandi bitanga imbaraga kandi bikagorana no kugera kumyanzuro yunguka.Shakisha uburyo bwo gufatanya nandi mashyaka.
4. Guma muri zone.Kwibanda kuri iki gihe bisaba kureka ibyahise, harimo uburambe bubi.Reka guhangayikishwa n'ibyahise.Umujinya ukuraho intumbero yawe kubintu byingenzi.Ibihe byashize.Gukomeza ni inyungu za buri wese.
5. Erekana icyubahiro nubwo utafatwa nayo.Niba umwanzi wawe akoresheje amagambo akaze, gerageza kuguma utuje kandi ufite ikinyabupfura, wihangane kandi ushikame.Reba uko ibintu bimeze hanyuma umenye icyo ushaka rwose nuburyo ushobora kwirinda kugira ngo uhaze ibyo ukeneye.
6. Shakisha inyungu.Iyo wowe n'abafatanyabikorwa bawe mu mishyikirano bashaka ibihe "win-win", uva "gufata ukajya gutanga."Gufata bisobanura kwibanda gusa kubyo ukeneye.Iyo utanze, urema agaciro kubandi.Gutanga ntibisobanura gutsindwa.

 

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